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The Virtual Memorial

“As long as humankind exists and we haven’t suffered through some massive collapse of civilization (e.g. zombie apocalypse), then will be active,” b-emortal assured would-be customers. As it turns out, the final judgment on b-emortal was rendered with considerably less drama. This postmortem messaging service, bootstrapped by a $15,000 indiegogo campaign, generated some media buzz but never got off the ground. In fact, this spreadsheet of 90 similar services shows that perhaps 1/4 have likewise flatlined.

It may seem as if there’s just no money to be made in digital memorialization. But as this Slate story explains, there’s plenty to be made on the front end—that is, just after someone dies. Interest fades quickly among extended family and friends, but loved ones remain eager to give him or her a digital immortality, of sorts. That’s where the virtual memorial comes in.

What’s the difference between an online obituary and a virtual memorial?

Any remaining distinction between online obituaries and virtual memorials is quickly fading, though, as even the simplest online obituaries continue to integrate more multimedia features and options. Nearly all online obituary sites now offer—at the very least—social media sharing, a guest book, and optional video uploads. Click the tabs below for more about the elements that make up a digital memorial.

App, Website, Social Media: One Memorial Three Ways
The Officer Down Memorial Page is sponsored by a not-for-profit organization dedicated to honoring fallen law enforcement officers throughout the United States.  You can access its content through a mobile app, a website, or  Facebook. Let’s compare them to see how a memorial might differ depending on the platform. If you like, download the Officer Down Memorial Page (ODMP) app to your mobile device. Then compare it to and
Officer Down app screen


The app has a simple, appealing interface with a list of recently fallen officers, trends in line-of-duty deaths (LODDs), nearby LODDs, and a list of fallen K9s, among other items.


The ODMP website contains much more content than the app, including news, event announcements, information for potential donors, and a link to the ODMP online store.
Officer Down Facebook page


The ODMP Facebook page is all about getting involved and connecting with others for grief support, legislative action, and fundraising. For example, you can register to run a virtual 5K for National Police Week. Runners receive a shirt and race bib, and can participate from 1,000 miles away.