How to Write an Online ObituaryColorful stories for modern lives
Melissa Jayne Kinsey
I’ve been a publications specialist for 20+ years. In consultation with subject matter experts, I’ve ghostwritten several health and medical textbooks and other publications. I’ve worked in acquisitions, development, and production for five medical publishers, and I now own a small business that supplies content and editorial services to publishers of specialized medical, technical, and scientific information.
Writing a good obituary for my dad turned out to be trickier than I thought. Where to begin? Which stories and details would set his obit apart from tributes to other beloved fathers, grandfathers, and military veterans?
My Google searches for tips on obituary writing turned up only predictable suggestions: be brief, pound out a string of clichés, append a superfluous list of survivors, and toss in a few harps and angels. The resulting “death notice” is so bland, it could pass for a LinkedIn profile. My dad deserved more than a listicle of job titles and relatives—doesn’t everyone?
Casting about for direction but finding little, I applied what I knew of writing in general and tried to do justice to his remarkable life. When I was finished, I resolved to help others who want to remember their loved ones (or write their own obituaries) with warmth, authenticity, and a bit of chutzpah.
Quick-Start Guide to Writing an Online Obituary